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Showing posts with label 2013. Show all posts

Friday, 3 January 2014

Firstly, I'd like to wish you all a very happy new year and hope you've had a great start to 2014! Without trying to sound very cliché by saying 'New year, new me (blog)' I would like this year to be a new start for this blog...

I started this blog back in 2011 as a platform to reach out to those with invisible disabilities & to educate others about existing invisible conditions which most of us are unaware of.

When I was diagnosed with an incurable, inherited condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome (I'd never heard of it either) after years of pain and numerous doctors visits, I hadn't received a correct diagnosis till the age of 16. I couldn't understand how it could take so long to be diagnosed with a condition that I was born with and why hadn't it been picked up sooner? I then realised it was because EDS is one of many invisible conditions that very little is known about.

Since starting this blog it has reached so many milestones, reaching a global audience with almost 45,000 hits and it has been inspiring for me to hear you share so many of your incredible stories and journeys about the conditions that you face in day to day life yet often get unnoticed.  I hold my hands up, I've promised numerous times to upload posts far more regularly than I have (slaps wrist) but as usual I got swept up in the business everyday life, starting back at uni, working etc etc - but that's enough of my excuses.

So here is my new year's resolution, which you can help me stick too... I will start off by posting on this blog every 2 weeks, on the 1st and 3rd Friday of each month starting today before hopefully starting to upload regular weekly posts. Baby steps.

The content I upload will not be all doom and gloom, instead I want to share inspiring stories, useful websites, video links etc about all kinds of invisible conditions. But to do this I need your help, for this blog to reach its full potential I want to try and reach out to as many sufferers of invisible conditions as possible to offer support by sharing helpful info with each other and act as an extra online support network.

So could you please share this post with as many people as possible as you never know who it might reach and help. Please can you email in any info, stories, video links, organisation names, anything at all which you think may be of use to others to hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk so that I can feature them in future posts.

Also let me know what kind of posts would you be interested in reading about? Let me know either via email, twitter or FB. But for now I'll stop rambling, I'll just say that I believe...

Together we can help make the invisible, visible. 

 Abi x

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Sunday, 1 September 2013

- Emily and Seb at London 2012


- Emily and her friend Tom with 
The One Show's Alex Jones

Me and my twin sister, Lucy were born 10 weeks prematurely, and later diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy, after not being able to walk for quite a while when we were young.  My early memories are of constantly walking up and down the stairs at our local Children's Development Centre to try and strengthen my legs.  We had a lovely childhood, and loved school.  I don't remember our disability ever affecting us, how we made friends, or our outlook on life.

At 9 years old, I had an operation to improve my walking, as it was getting so bad that my knees started to knock together and my posture was worsening.  I had Derotational Osteotomy where my thigh bones were cut and pinned back together.  My hamstrings were also lengthened.  This huge procedure took quite a while to recover from, and I lost all the muscle tone in my legs, leading me to use a wheelchair.  I have no recollection of this change ever really bothering me; I was actually much more mobile with the wheelchair, and I started playing wheelchair basketball locally and at county level.  I remember my wheelchair even being quite cool when I started secondary school!  Again, apart from a few issues with school trips and risk assessments, my time at school was so enjoyable. I did well in my GCSEs, and decided to stay on at 6th form, with the hope of attending University.

In the summer of 2008, at the age of 16, I as given an amazing opportunity which would change my life forever. I was nominated by my school to go to southern Africa (Namibia, Lesotho and South Africa) with the JoLt Charity, an incredible organisation that takes disabled or disadvantaged young people on a literal 'Journey of a Lifetime'.  Here, I met people with similar life experiences and similar ambitions.  Together, we did things that we'd never imagined would have been possible.  We rode elephants, went cage diving with sharks, and climbed some of the highest sand dunes there are! I immediately got the travel bug, along with 30 life-long friends.

After JoLt, I was determined to travel some more. After my A Levels, I went to the Sinai Desert with the Yorkshire Schools Exploring Society, and was the first wheelchair user they'd ever taken on a trip.  I was also the first wheelchair user to ever cross the desert on camel! Whilst in the area, we also completed our PADI Open Water Scuba Diving course - a real challenge for me - but it was so worth it.

After Sinai, I moved to London after being accepted to study English at Queen Mary, University of London.  I totally fell in love with London, and all the opportunities it has to offer, and I adored student life!  It was half-way through this fresher year that I was accepted to move to Melbourne, Australia for a year studying abroad.  Going to the other side of the world was quite a scary thought, but I was ready for the challenge. In Australia, I snorkelled at the Great Barrier Reef, volunteered at a juvenile prison, and met another wheelchair user, Alex, who was to become my travelling partner for the year.  Of course, I managed to fit a little study time in, too...  Urging myself to grab such a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity like moving to Australia is something that I'm so proud of.  It would have been so much easier to sit back and stay in my comfort zone, but taking that risk was the best thing I've ever done.

I returned to London in July 2012, after heading from Australia to America to intern at the United Nations in New York.  It was at this time that I received a call from the London 2012 team, saying that my application to be a Games Maker at the Paralympic Games had been successful.  The day before my first shift, I got another call, asking me if I would talk at a press conference the following morning.  I said yes, thinking nothing else of it.  But, lo and behold, I arrived that morning to be greeted by Lord Sebastian Coe - we'd be doing the conference together in front of loads of journalists!  I told them all how amazing the Games had been for those with disabilities, 'lifting the cloud of limitation' on everything that they thought was previously possible.

I then worked at the Excel arena, working as a Games Maker in the warm-up team for Wheelchair Fencing.  I absolutely loved it.  We got the chance to take athletes out onto the field of play, and then take photos with them and their medals!

Seb then went on to use my 'cloud' quote in his closing ceremony speech of the Paralympics.  My phone was going mad with calls and texts - I couldn't believe it!  My friend Tom and I had previously spoken about how great it would be to write an accessible travel guide for the next set of Games at Rio 2016, and this was suddenly our opportunity.  I quickly got in touch with Seb and the team at the British Paralympic Association, both of whom have supported my ambition to create the guide right from the start.  I am now writing the guide in association with Dorling Kindersley and Rough Guides.  We are currently trying to raise sponsorship so that we can distribute the guide free of charge to those who will benefit the most from it. I'm also about to start a Master’s degree in Disability Studies at the University of Leeds, and I'm hoping that my dream to help others with disabilities to embrace the idea of travelling the world really makes a difference!
I am so fortunate to have been given so many wonderful opportunities, and each one has led to another one.  To anyone reading this, the only advice I can give is to urge you to say 'yes' to any exciting offer that is made to you; you never, ever know where it might lead!


 - Twitter: @EmilyRYates

Next week's blog post will feature a short Q+A with Emily about her experiences at London 2012 and her plans for the future - so stay tuned!



Sunday, 25 August 2013

As part of our attempt to raise awareness about all invisible conditions we're starting off with Fibromyalgia...

So what is Fibromyalgia?
Fibromyalgia is a chronic condition of widespread pain and profound fatigue. The pain tends to be felt as diffuse aching or burning, often described as head to toe. It may be worse at some times than at others. It may also change location, usually becoming more severe in parts of the body that are used most.
The fatigue ranges from feeling tired, to the exhaustion of a flu-like illness. It may come and go and people can suddenly feel drained of all energy – as if someone just “pulled the plug”.
The name fibromyalgia is made up from “fibro” for fibrous tissues such as tendons and ligaments; “my” indicating muscles; and “algia” meaning pain. - taken from Fibromyalgia Association UK
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A video created to help raise awareness about Fibromyalgia:


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Mission Statement: The National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association unites patients, policy makers, and medical and scientific communities to transform lives through visionary support, advocacy, research and education to develop affordable and accessible treatments and cures for fibromyalgia and chronic pain illnesses.  - NFMCPA 

Local Support Groups in USA and across Other Continents


If you're interested in helping to raise awareness about Fibromyalgia then click this link to find out how you can get involved in awareness day events near you, wherever you are in the world! If you're situated in the USA click here to find events in your State!
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Finally, if you'd like to know more information about Fibromyalgia please see our previous blog post about Fibromyalgia Awareness Day 2013!


Sunday, 18 August 2013

We're aware that a lot of our content has been about invisible conditions that we're most familiar with, that's why we want to branch out and not only educate others but also educate ourselves about the invisible conditions that we know little about!

To do this, we shall feature weekly content about all kinds of conditions with a new post being uploaded every Sunday. Some weeks we shall focus on an individual condition including content ranging from videos to personals stories, facts to useful links whereas in others we shall feature collaborations and events that are happening across the world to help raise awareness!

We really want to branch out and reach as many people across the world as possible educating them about all kinds of invisible conditions and we'd love you to share your stories to help educate us.

Over the next year we shall feature posts about as many invisible disabilities as possible from the picture below. Starting with next weeks post on Fibromyalgia. If you would like to contribute your useful links, personal stories or anything you think others should know about the condition please email it to: hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk


Saturday, 10 August 2013



Hello All... 

This is just a quick message to say sorry that we've been a bit quiet the last few weeks on all of our social platforms we're currently working on the re-branding and relaunch of our blog for you guys (as you can see by our new blog layout, what do you think?)
  • We're working on some exciting projects and collaborating with some great people which we're excited to share with you all soon.
  • We'll keep you updated about what we're up to on all of our platforms so make sure you're following us on Twitter and have liked our Facebook page. 
  • If you have anything you'd like to include in our future weekly blog posts or just want to give us some feedback on our new look then we'd love to hear from you. Just email us at hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk.
P.S. We're new to all this blog design stuff so we'd love to know what you think of it by emailing us at hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk, and don't worry we do know that a few bits still need tweaking!

Friday, 24 May 2013

As part of EDS awareness month many of you have been doing your bit by creating videos and putting them up online to share with others. There have been so many contributions so it has been really hard shortlisting some of our favourites to share with you but here they are!

British TV Soap Opera - Coronation Street: 

Cherylee Houston who plays Izzie Armstrong in Coronation Street suffers with EDS so when the EDS UK had chance to go and meet the cast they wasted no time in showcasing their support for the cause.






Your Videos:

This is a song called 'The Cure' which was created by a young girl called Kitty Richardson about her struggle with EDS.



This is a video created by  Heather or 'Zebra Wheels' as she's known in the community about her life with EDS.





Our Video Contribution: 

Here is a short film that we created to help raise awareness about invisible conditions!





Here is how Natalia Carrasco is trying to raise awareness, she's creating daily EDS facts and posting them online for us all to share. Please see our previous blog post for more facts:






Friday, 17 May 2013

This week's post is dedicated to some of the main symptoms that people with EDS suffer with. 


Hypermobile joints

People with EDS typically have loose joints, which means the limbs bend more than usual. This can cause floppy joints in infancy, and some affected children take longer to sit, stand and walk.
Hypermobility EDS is the most common form. The joints can sometimes be very unstable and may dislocate easily.
In other forms of EDS (such as kyphoscoliotic and arthrochalasia EDS), the looseness of the joints tends to be more disabling and dislocations may happen frequently. Joint instability may occasionally lead to osteoarthritis, but this is uncommon and occurs mostly in adults.

Abnormal skin

In all forms of EDS the skin is stretchier than normal. It easily pulls away from the body and springs back once released (this is best tested at the neck, elbows or knees).
Bruising of the skin is common in most forms of EDS because small surface blood vessels may be fragile and break easily.
In classical EDS, skin can also be extremely fragile and can split easily, especially over the forehead, knees, shins and elbows. The scars can be wide and papery.
In the very rare dermatospraxis form of EDS, the skin is severely fragile, saggy and wrinkly. There may be obvious looseness of the facial skin.
In vascular EDS, the skin is often transparent, particularly over the chest, and the veins underneath are easily visible. People with other forms of EDS may also have slightly thinner skin than usual.

Fragile body tissues

Increased stretchiness and fragility of ligaments, tendons and joint tissues makes them prone to overstretching or even tearing (ligaments are tissues that connect bones together at a joint, and tendons connect bone to muscle). Therefore, limbs may be floppy because they are not properly supported.
In vascular EDS, certain body tissues and organs are particularly delicate. Blood vessels, bowel walls and lung linings may be easily torn, causing internal bleeding. Pregnancy in women with vascular EDS can be dangerous because the womb lining is fragile.  
Information taken from the NHS website.
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Jodie is only 19 years old and has Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, Type 3 Hypermobility. However she wasn't diagnosed until she was 16 after numerous long stays in hospitals at Newcastle and London and multiple major operations. Life is not easy for Jodie or her family yet she still wishes to raise awareness for EDS as it is such a rare, cruel and debilitating disease that has seriously affected her in so many different ways. Jodie has been through so much but faces everything with a belief that she can make a difference and she is the epitome of courage in the face of adversity.


Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) has drastically affected Jodie's life. Despite all that she has and continues to face, Jodie is a true fighter and always has a beautiful smile! Jodie feels passionately about helping others and hopes that by sharing her story with you, this will not only help to raise awareness of EDS but will also inspire you to support The Sick Children's Trust; a charity which has been there for Jodie's family during numerous long hospital stays. Please support Jodie's Journey and help us make a difference to unwell children and their families.

Information taken from the Jodie's Journey Website.

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Here is how Natalia Carrasco is trying to raise awareness, she's creating daily EDS facts and posting them online for us all to share. Please see our previous blog post for more facts:






Sunday, 12 May 2013


Many EDS sufferers also have Fibromyalgia, this post is dedicated to helping to raise awareness about this condition as today is its National awareness day. A massive thank you to Bee Anne for collecting the information. If you'd like to find out more about Fibromyalgia or are interested to see how you can get involved please see the links at the end of the post.



A Simple Explanation of Fibromyalgia
Making Sense of a Complex Disorder,
For Those Who Don't Have It

By Adrienne Dellwo
Fibromyalgia is a complex condition that's difficult to understand, especially if you don't have a medical degree. Because it involves the brain and nervous system, fibromyalgia can have an impact on virtually every part of the body.
If you're trying to understand this condition in someone you know, it can be incredibly confusing. When a lot of people see a bizarre collection of fluctuating symptoms that don't show up in medical tests, they decide fibromyalgia must be a psychological problem. A host of scientific evidence, however, proves that it's a very real physical condition.
Digging through that scientific research doesn't help most of us, though. Terms like neurotransmitter dysregulation, nociceptors, cellular enzymes and opiate pathways aren't exactly easy to grasp.
The goal of this article is to help you understand and relate to what's going on in the body of someone with fibromyalgia, in plain terms and without medical jargon. At the end of each section, you'll find relevant medical terms with links to definitions. They'll be helpful if you want to go beyond a basic understanding, but you don't need to understand the terms to get through this article.

Understanding the Pain of Fibromyalgia
Imagine you're planning a party and expecting about 20 guests. Three or four friends told you they'd come early to help you out. But they don't show, and instead of 20 guests, you get 100. You're overwhelmed.
That's what's happening with pain signals in someone who has fibromyalgia. The cells send too many pain messages (party guests), up to five times as many as in a healthy person. That can turn mild pressure or even an itch into pain.
When those pain signals reach the brain, they're processed by something called serotonin. People with fibromyalgia, however, don't have enough serotonin (the friends who didn't show up to help), leaving the brain overwhelmed.
This is why people with fibromyalgia have pain in tissues that show no sign of damage. It's not imagined pain; it's misinterpreted sensation that the brain turns into actual pain.
Other substances in the patient's brain amplify a host of other signals -- essentially, "turning up the volume" of everything. That can include light, noise and odor on top of pain, and it can further overload the brain. This can lead to confusion, fear, anxiety and panic attacks.

Understanding the Ups & Downs of Fibromyalgia
Most people with a chronic illness are always sick. The effects on the body of cancer, a virus, or a degenerative disease are fairly constant. It's understandably confusing to see someone with fibromyalgia be unable to do something on Monday, yet perfectly capable of it on Wednesday.
Look at it this way: Everyone's hormones fluctuate, and even things like weight and blood pressure can rise and fall during the course of a day, week or month. All of the systems and substances in the body work that way, rising and falling in response to different situations.
Research shows conclusively that fibromyalgia involves abnormal levels of multiple hormones and other substances. Because those things all go up and down, sometimes one or more are in the normal zone and other times they're not. The more things that are out of the zone, the worse they'll feel.

Understanding Stress & Fibromyalgia
Some people think fibromyalgia patients are emotionally incapable of dealing with stress, because a stressful situation will generally make symptoms worse.
The important thing to understand is that we respond to stress both emotionally and physically. A physical response, in everyone, includes a rush of adrenaline and other hormones that help kick your body into overdrive so you can deal with what's happening.
People with fibromyalgia don't have enough of those hormones, which makes stress very hard on their bodies and can trigger symptoms.
Also, when we talk about "stress" we usually mean the emotional kind, which can come from your job, a busy schedule, or personal conflict. A lot of things actually cause physical stress, such as illness, lack of sleep, nutritional deficiencies and injuries. Physical stress can have the same effect as emotional stress.

Understanding the Fatigue of Fibromyalgia
Think of a time when you were not just tired, but really exhausted. Maybe you were up all night studying for a test. Maybe you were up multiple times to feed a baby or take care of a sick child. Maybe it was the flu or strep throat.
Imagine being exhausted like that all day while you're trying to work, take care of kids, clean the house, cook dinner, etc. For most people, one or two good night's sleep would take that feeling away.
With fibromyalgia, though, comes sleep disorders that make a good night's sleep a rarity. A person with fibromyalgia can have anywhere from one to all of the following sleep disorders:
Insomnia (difficulty getting to sleep or staying asleep)
Inability to reach or stay in a deep sleep
Sleep apnea (breathing disturbances that can wake the person repeatedly)
Restless leg syndrome (twitching, jerking limbs that make it hard to sleep)
Periodic limb movement disorder (rhythmic, involuntary muscle contractions that prevent deep sleep)

Fibromyalgia In a Nutshell
A lot of illnesses involve one part of the body, or one system. Fibromyalgia, however, involves the entire body and throws all kinds of things out of whack. As bizarre and confusing as the varied symptoms may be, they're tied to very real physical causes.
Fibromyalgia can take someone who is educated, ambitious, hardworking and tireless, and rob them of their ability to work, clean house, exercise, think clearly and ever feel awake or healthy.
It's NOT psychological "burn out" or depression.
It's NOT laziness.
It's NOT whining or malingering.
It IS the result of widespread dysfunction in the body and the brain that's hard to understand, difficult to treat, and, so far, impossible to cure.
The hardest thing for patients, however, is having to live with it. Having the support and understanding of people in their lives can make it a lot easier.
For more information about Fibromyalgia and how you can help raise awareness please visit the National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association website.

Friday, 10 May 2013

Our first #EDSawarenessmonth blog post is dedicated to the different types of EDS that people have. Although some are more common forms than others and many have overlapping symptoms and this is how the different types are considered and defined.


  • Classical - the skin is stretchy, soft, fragile and elastic. The joints are loose and flexible.
  • Hypermobility - the joints are noticeably loose, flexible and sometimes painful, particularly after exercise. Unlike with other types of EDS, the skin is virtually normal, except for easy bruising.
  • Vascular - this is the most severe type, as it means organs and blood vessels can easily burst.
  • Kyphoscoliotic - the spine is severely curved in childhood. 
  • Arthrochalasia - this causes short stature, fragile skin and joints that easily dislocate.
  • Dermatospraxis - the skin is doughy and wrinkly, and tends to sag and fold. This type is exceptionally rare, probably affecting fewer than five patients in the UK. 
  • Periodontal - this form resembles classical EDS, but also causes very fragile gums.
Information taken from the NHS website.

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I know what you're asking now...

How can I get involved in helping to raise awareness about EDS?

Well first of all why not visit the Ehlers Danlos Support UK website and download their Awareness Month fundraising pack for some ideas.

Or alternatively send us your EDS stories and tell us how you're raising awareness and we'll feature it in one of our future blog posts. Email: hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk. Next weeks post shall feature Jodie's Journey.

Here is how Natalia Carrasco is doing her bit, she's creating daily EDS facts and posting them online for us all to share. Please see our previous blog post for the first five facts:


Finally, on May 12th we shall be posting a special blog post dedicated to Fibromyalgia, a condition that a lot of EDS sufferers also have, to show our support for Fibromyalgia International Awareness Day! 



Sunday, 5 May 2013



As May is EDS awareness Month every friday we will post a new blog post with updates about how people from across the world are helping to raise awareness! We'll hopefully be featuring all kinds of content from poems, to personal stories, events to images....

So if you're helping to raise awareness about EDS this month please what you're doing by sending us an email at hideandseekid@hotmail.co.uk

Also, Natalia Carrasco is helping to raise awareness by posting 31 facts about EDS for the 31 days in May. We'll be sharing these in all of our blog posts throughout the month. Here are the first 5!


Don't forget to subscribe to our future posts by selecting the subscribe option on the right hand side bar, follow us on twitter and like our Facebook page!

Oh, and our blog has now had over 30,000 hits so a massive thank you to all of you for your support in helping us to raise awareness about invisible conditions!

Saturday, 30 March 2013


Find Me Good Care ...



Find Me Good Care is a free online resource launched at the end of last year by the Social Care Institute for Excellence (SCIE) – a national charity established to improve care across the UK.


This week's post is dedicated to Find Me Good Care, a charity that aims to help people in their struggle to find the good quality care that their family member or indeed themselves may need. The first stumbling block is often finding where to start? It's especially hard if you don't know what sort of care and support is available or what they specifically need. Find Me Good Care was established to help people in these situations and includes advice and guidance on what to look for, how to pay, what you options are etc, as well as a local directory service where users can provide feedback.
The user friendly website www.findmegoodcare.co.uk can be tailored to individual needs; users can type in their postcode, specify what type of care they are looking for, and the results will return local services and council contacts. There is also lots of useful information for specific care needs.
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Ann Macfarlane OBE, leading Disability Rights and Equalities Consultant: “The main issue with finding and paying for care is that regardless of how much or how little funding you have available, you need good information and advice on spending it wisely. It’s taken me a long time to work out how the system works, which is why something like Find Me Good Care is really helpful for people. Many newly disabled people aren’t as aware of what their options are, and social care is just one of the systems that a person who requires support might need to understand.
Andrea Sutcliffe, Chief Executive of SCIE: “We know that the care system can be confusing and our research has confirmed that most people are unaware of their options - that’s why we’ve created this service. We have brought together comprehensive advice and guidance to help people take those all-important first steps in navigating the care and support system. 
Oh and finally, hope you all have a great Easter and stay tuned for next week's Sunday post!

Sunday, 10 March 2013

This is a post to remember the success of Rare Disease Day 2013 where over 70 countries across the world took part in a variety of ways to help raise awareness about rare diseases. This post will showcase some of the events and highlight the success of the day!

But first... 


So, what actually happened?

On 28th February, thousands of people across 71 countries took part in helping to raise awareness. Support grew across the globe as this was the largest number of countries participating throughout the 6 years that it has been running. A variety of events were held ranging from conferences, to radio shows, sponsored runs to cake sales! Everyone pulled together and worked as a team. The day got great media coverage across the globe and opened up a lot of people eyes to what rare and invisible conditions exist.Click the link here to see how each and every country played their part! 

Also, make sure you check out the Official Rare Disease Day 2013 video below:



If you didn't know about Rare Disease Day this year but wish you had got involved fear not as you can certainly get involved with Rare Disease Day 2014! Keep up to date on their twitter and facebook for the latest info as well as their website!

Next Week's Post will feature the UK service 'Find Me Good Care'.